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Frequently Asked Questions
What are the goals of therapy?This will depend a lot on you and the therapist you pick. For some therapists, “the problem is the problem.” In other words, if you come in saying you want less anxiety in your life or to feel less depressed, that becomes the goal. Other therapists may see these presenting problems as “symptomatic” of “deeper” problems. They might see changing your personality as the true goal of therapy. Often people seeking therapy aren’t entirely clear about what the problem is, but just want their life to be going differently. In these cases, a therapist can be helpful in clarifying what you want to work on and creating a plan with you about how therapy could help.
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What makes therapy effective?
Back to TopWhy Narrative Therapy?I just said different models of therapy don’t lead to dramatically different results, so why all the attention to Narrative Therapy on this website? Two reasons: First, it simply suits me best. I feel like I’m working "with" clients against a problem, rather than “intervening” on them or “treating” them. If most therapy approaches come out about equal, I want to be practicing one that seems respectful of the people I see. Second, I think Narrative Therapy creates a lot of the conditions that seem to make a difference in therapy. I see it as capitalizing on clients’ abilities, fostering a close therapeutic connection, and giving substance to the hopes clients bring to therapy. Back to TopHow will I know when I’m done?Ideally you will be having regular conversations with your therapist about how therapy is going. There is some evidence that people feel more satisfied when they are in therapy for longer periods of time (See Seligman's "The Effectiveness of Therapy"), but there’s also evidence that the impact of therapy declines over time. In other words, you may get the maximum benefit early on in therapy with diminishing returns as time goes on. Back to TopHow do I go about finding a therapist?One of the best approaches is to talk to people who have seen that particular therapist and hear about their first-hand experience. If you get a referral from a doctor or other health professional, ask why they recommend that particular therapist. Even if your insurance plan limits the people you can see, try to gather information about your choices. Many therapists are willing to have a short phone conversation for free where you can briefly discuss the problem and find out how they might work with it. The “Links Page” in this website also features a number of “therapist locator” services. Back to TopWhere do I find resources about therapy's effectiveness?The Heart & Soul of Change: What Works in Therapy (1999). By Mark
Hubble, Barry Duncan & Scott Miller. Washington D.C.: American Psychological
Association. Back to TopBy Jim Sparks
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